Most couples come into counseling or coaching thinking their core problem is communication, conflict, sex, money, or in-laws. But beneath many of those struggles is a quieter, more destructive pattern at work— triangulation . And while triangulation wounds marriages most deeply, it doesn’t stop there. This pattern shows up in parenting, friendships, workplaces, extended families, and even church leadership . Once you know what to look for, you’ll start seeing it everywhere. What Is...

You just took the Love Styles Assessment . Maybe your result surprised you. Maybe it explained things you’ve felt for years. Or, maybe it left you wanting clarity—“Okay… but what does this actually mean ?” That’s what this post is for. Attachment Theory can feel complicated, but the heart of it is simple: You were made for connection, and the way you learned to connect shapes every relationship you have today. Scripture tells the same story. God created us for relationship—with Him and with...

Every marriage lives on two floors. The ground floor is connection: attachment, safety, “we’re for each other.” When that foundation is...