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Most couples come into counseling or coaching thinking their core problem is communication, conflict, sex, money, or in-laws. But beneath many of those struggles is a quieter, more destructive pattern at work— triangulation . And while triangulation wounds marriages most deeply, it doesn’t stop there. This pattern shows up in parenting, friendships, workplaces, extended families, and even church leadership . Once you know what to look for, you’ll start seeing it everywhere. W

You just took the Love Styles Assessment . Maybe your result surprised you. Maybe it explained things you’ve felt for years. Or, maybe it left you wanting clarity—“Okay… but what does this actually mean ?” That’s what this post is for. Attachment Theory can feel complicated, but the heart of it is simple: You were made for connection, and the way you learned to connect shapes every relationship you have today. Scripture tells the same story. God created us for relationship—wi

Every marriage lives on two floors. The ground floor is connection: attachment, safety, “we’re for each other.” When that foundation is...

Marriage constantly evolves and is shaped by cultural shifts, technological advancements, and societal expectations. As we enter 2025,...

In a world where technology and demands continually accelerate, it’s easy to lose sight of what matters most: meaningful relationships....

Happiness isn't something you get from marriage as much as something you bring to marriage.